Wednesday, July 11, 2012

12 Months!!

Our little girl turned 1!  It's hard to believe we have a 1-year-old.  (It's equally hard to believe we survived the longest year of our life.)  We were so excited to celebrate with her a little bit, but we'll celebrate more this weekend.  Happy Birthday Leah!!



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7/18/12 Editorial Note: Leah had her 12-month checkup on 7/12/12, after this post was originally published.  Length: 28.9 inches (44th percentile).  Weight: 19 lbs 6.4 oz. (23rd percentile).  Also, this was our 200th published blog post!  It's fitting that it was Leah's 1-year post.
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We've been waiting to get a chocolate chip cookie cake, and we knew now was the time.



We even let Leah get to the cake this time.  I think she knew something was a little different when she turned the corner and started going for it. 





As a result of the mini sugar rush, here's what we had on our hands about 1/2 an hour after bed time....


Yeah, it took a while for her to get to sleep.  But, hey...it's her birthday!  You gotta bend the rules every now and then.  And as you can tell from all the monthy birthday cakes we've had, birthdays are a big deal around here.  Happy Birthday little girl!  What a wonderful year it's been with you.

Now this post is about a year in the making.  Thanks a million to my cousin Renee for the very cool monthly birthday stickers!  They inspired us to mark the day each month during Leah's first year.  Enjoy the recap....




7/11/11 - Happy Birthday!



8/11/11 - 1 Month

9/11/11 - 2 Months

10/11/11 - 3 Months

11/11/11 - 4 Months

12/11/11 - 5 Months

1/11/12 - 6 Months

2/11/12 - 7 Months

3/11/12 - 8 Months

4/11/12 - 9 Months

5/11/12 - 10 Months

6/11/12 - 11 Months

7/11/12 - 12 Months

And in case you're interested in a recap of the birthday cakes.....

Ok, no cake for the actual birthday....













Monday, July 9, 2012

BA's Corner: World's Best Baby

I'm now fully convinced that I have the world's best baby.

We had an ENT appointment scheduled for a couple of weeks from now, just in case Leah's ear infections didn't improve.  And the plan was to get an “emergency” ENT appointment if necessary last week.  Leah had been on her most recent medication for about 3.5 days.  Like the other medications, she seemed to be doing fine for a couple of days.  But on Thursday, she didn't nap well, began to tug at her ears, and we had to console her several times between 7:30 p.m. and midnight.  She tugged at her ears some more Friday morning.  So we thought something might be going on. 

It's always a judgment call as to whether we should make a doctor's appointment or not.  I'd say 80-90% of the time we've gone into the doctor, he or she confirmed that there was good reason for us to come in.  This day was no exception.

So after a month of a double ear infection, and after a failed 5th medication, we called in Friday morning to get an "emergency" ENT appointment for evaluation and next steps, which they scheduled for this coming Tuesday.  But we didn't think that was a very "emergent" appointment, and we thought we should get Leah checked out before the weekend.  So we got the first available sick appointment with Leah's pediatrician Friday morning - 10:10 a.m.  Nana and I hopped in the car for the short trip to the doctor’s office.

We brought the stroller so Leah could nap as long as possible at the office.  They tend to make you wait for a while, so we’ve learned to be prepared.  Leah fell asleep in the car, and I was able to transfer her to the stroller without her waking up too much.  So she got a 30-minute nap or so in her stroller at the doctor’s office (while I convinced the nurses not to touch her until the doctor came in).  


The doctor looked in her ears, determined they were “not much better,” and said our next step was for him to call in a favor to see if she could get tubes that afternoon.  He made several calls to review his treatments and Leah’s (lack of) progress, and discussed next steps.  Most doctors were in surgery or on vacation, but he managed to get a hold of one going through airport security at ATL.  He also got a second opinion in the office.  Everyone agreed immediate tubes was the right answer, and he got us scheduled for some time that afternoon.

At this point, Leah knows what the doctor’s office is, and she doesn’t care for it.  She whips her little head around to see each person who walks through the door and notice what they have in their hands.  So we had burned through all the toys in her diaper bag trying to keep her calm.  And while all these conversations were taking place, I was trying to convince Leah to drink her bottle, having already distracted her with goldfish and rice krispies. 

The doctor peeked in for a quick update and instructed us to stop feeding.  Oops.  If there was a possibility she’d get tubes that day, she’d have to stop drinking liquids for 6 hours, and stop eating solids for 8 hours.  Sorry Leah.  This is how she handled it....





The arrangements were made, and we headed straight to the Emergency Room.  Yikes.  Leah’s Granda (AA’s dad) was passing through town to have lunch, so we told him to have lunch with us in the ER!  AA met us there with a couple of bottles so we could give Leah some apple juice until about 1 p.m. 

Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta was wonderful.  From the minute we stepped in, we were impressed.  There was no wait, so we burned right through triage to our first room, where we traded off so that Granda could spend some time with the Peanut, who was in a smiley, playful mood as usual.



Nurses and doctors came in and out of that room, and Leah watched every one of them.  She looked at every tool and instrument that came close to her, and smiled at everyone.  She was great.  We determined that the surgery would occur no earlier than 6:45 p.m., since I had given her goldfish.  We were quite lucky actually…the Pediatric ENT performing the surgery was only scheduled until 7 p.m.  Had our original appointment been any later, we’d have been out of luck for the whole weekend.  So after some lunch and visiting, we shipped AA back home to study until at least 6 p.m.  We were moved to our second room, at which point I walked Leah up and down the halls for probably an hour trying to get her to nap in her stroller.  I got some strange looks, of course, but I’m used to it. 

Leah napped for probably 20 minutes, and I began to brace for the worst.  I knew we’d have the crankiest baby pretty soon….ear infections, strange environment, essentially one bottle all day long, and maybe a combined 60 minutes of naps all day.  She was going to be a handful until this surgery.  And I figured she’d be really cranky after the surgery too.  So Nana and I settled in for a long day.

We were moved to our third (and final) room, which had a pull-out couch and a crib bed in it.  Man-o-man did Leah have a ball in that crib bed.  We put the rails up, dropped her in, and she ran laps for hours!  She would crawl from one end to the other, stand up, point at anything, talk adamantly about it, hop down, and do it all over again.  She was so funny.  We kept steadily rotating through the limited number of toys we had, and improvised with a few others.  We built a fort with sheets, and I made balloons out of some medical gloves - she had a ball with those. 





We were told the surgery was scheduled for 8 p.m., so we grabbed a bite to eat and told AA to keep studying.  Soon after that, they called me and said “we’re ready for you.”  I knew AA wanted to be there to see Leah before the surgery, so I stalled them as much as possible.  They came in with an infant gown and told me to put Leah in it.  I lolly-gagged through that, asking the nurse some questions and playing with Leah a little bit.  Then I slowly sauntered down the hall with the nurse, making conversation and taking pictures with Leah. 

The big people in the funny costumes are using big words. 
Should I be concerned?

Nana stayed in the room to tell AA where to go when she arrived.  The doctors, PA’s, and nurses came in, and I asked each of them some questions.  The Pediatric ENT came in to review the procedure and I asked him some questions (after I thanked him profusely for squeezing us in at the end of his shift).  Just before the OR nurse came to pick up Leah, AA arrived.  So I handed Leah to her and we snapped a few pics.  Leah was curious, of course, but still smiling.  I couldn’t believe how wonderfully she had handled all of this on no sleep and an empty stomach.  She was amazing.



At 6:45 p.m., the OR nurse put Leah in a warm blanket and carried her off to surgery.  Leah didn’t cry…she just put her arm on the nurse’s shoulder and looked around. 
Do you all think you can bribe me with a measely warm blanket?

We walked back to our room.  The doctor came in about 10-15 minutes later and talked us through the follow-up procedures.  They brought Leah in a few minutes later, and she was cranky and fussy as expected.  She drank A LOT and we finally got her calmed down after about an hour.  She was ready to go, but they said it’d be another 2 hours before the paperwork was ready for her to be discharged.  Ugh!  So we all grabbed some dinner (Leah included) and then we sent AA back to study some more.  It was hard to believe that an hour and a half after her procedure, this was our girl…..


Which way to the elevator, Peanut?






Every time the nurse came in, Leah crawled to that side of the crib, stood up, and stared at her while she spoke, listening intently.  Her final discharge instructions included (1) no blowing your nose and (2) no heavy lifting.  Leah didn't think either of those would be a problem.  By 9:45 p.m., we were all wrapped up.  The last thing I asked the nurse was “Do you mind if we keep the gown?”  She let me, so we’ll see if we get a bill.  It was adorable….what a souvenir.  

Get me outta here!!

I couldn’t believe after a day like that, no food, no sleep, all that strange activity, and it being way past her 7:30 p.m. bedtime…this was how my child was behaving.  I was so proud of her.

She napped on the way home.  We gave her another bottle at midnight, along with some Tylenol.  She slept well.  Lets hope the worst of the ear infections is behind us!

Thursday, July 5, 2012

BA's Corner: The Big Day

Sandwiched between final exams, a cross-country move, and bar exam prep was one major day that flew by way too quickly: graduation day.  I saw many of AA's friends who I hadn't seen in months, which was always a nice treat.  And we met many of their families, who we'd heard a lot about.  Leah got passed around and seemed to make everyone smile.  It was a wonderful time, and we enjoyed celebrating AA's hard-earned achievement.

AA's family flew in from Florida and D.C. to attend.  They spent a few days in the hotel with us and helped us say farewell to California.

It's unfortunate that AA spent 3 years on something this big, and you only spend a couple of days celebrating it.  But there has never been a more beautiful setting for a graduation - bright, sunny Malibu did not disappoint! 

"Guys, I think I can manage the cap, but the gown and the stairs are going to be a challenge."

AA with her family

"Weee, this is fun!  I still don't know why I have these things on my feet though."



AA and her Law School friends, Jill, Kristen, and Emily - Class of 2012

"All of this pomp and circumstance makes me hungry....this looks tasty."

"Auntie Kristen, Aren't you hungry too?"

"What do you mean you didn't bring any goldfish!"

One of my favorite pics from the day...our friend Kenley (a father himself)
attempting to control a strong and squirmy Peanut.




AA wanted her graduation lunch to be at Versailles, a local cuban restaurant chain.  It was a tough choice with so many good restaurants around, but it's hard to go wrong with Versailles.  We all enjoyed our last lunch in LA.



Monday, July 2, 2012

BA's Corner: Enough

How much can a person take? What about 2 big people and one little person?

There are many good reasons why we haven't updated the blog in a week.  Rather than tie them all together in a nice, neat story, how about some data points that help paint the picture of our lives recently?

  • We're all sick. And we got Nana sick too. You should hear us all sitting around at night coughing like a bunch of chain smokers (Leah included). We each lost our voice at different times, but have gradually gained them back. It all started with Leah, and she had the worst of it.  She had this virus (the worst I've had in years) on top of a double ear infection.  She had a fever and spent 3 days panting...she was a mess, and it was a little scary.  Poor little girl. 
  • Leah's now been to the doctor 7 times in 3.5 weeks.
  • She is now on her 5th medication for ear infections; none has worked yet. The 3rd round was a series of 5 shots in her little legs over 3 days. She had 1 ear infection in 10 months in California. She's had infected ears continuously for the past 3 weeks here in Atlanta. We're just not sure if it's the same infection, or different ones.
  • Leah's newest medication apparently results in massive diarrhea. In fact, the bottle says "diarrhea may persist for weeks or months after medication is finished." Wonderful. So now we're just sitting around waiting to wear out the diaper genie.  Apologies in advance, Leah. 
  • We now have an appointment with an ENT.  Fingers crossed we don't have to get tubes yet.
  • We were also "pleasantly surprised" to find some pictures online of Leah's new daycare class. My favorite are the pictures of 2 other kids sucking on Leah's pacifier.  And they wondered why we wanted to bring it home and clean it every night. 
  • On top of all this, I just filed a claim for $6,500 with the moving company, if that gives you any indication as to how "smoothly" the move went.  Among other things, our goods were split into 2 shipments without our knowledge, and it took way too long to get into our townhome.  So we've been behind the ball ever since we got here. 
If we have another 2 weeks like these past 2 weeks, AA likely won't pass the bar.  So we had to make some changes. 
  • First, we've had some serious help from family.  Nana and Papa came several weekends to watch Leah while AA studied and I got things done around the house.  Unfortunately, I got sick and spent most of that time in bed while Nana and Papa watched Leah AND put together porch furniture, fixed the grill, cooked dinner, etc.  Thank you Nana and Papa!
  • Then we were still overwhelmed.  So Gramma drove up to watch Leah this past weekend.  I was feeling better, so I got several things done around the house and even snuck over to get my GA license and a haircut.  I felt spoiled to get my first haircut in several months.  Thank you Gramma!
  • We held several conversations last week with Leah's daycare teachers about her drinking bottles in a bouncer chair, which can encourage ear infections.  We were concerned about this from day one here and watched it closely.  But with so many problems lately, we just told them no...every morning and afternoon last week, to each teacher. 
  • We're still trying to figure out how to keep other babies from munching on Leah's pacifier.  Can't have that any more either.
  • We've pulled the pacifier during the day....only for use in the crib.  We've read that the constant use of pacifiers can encourage ear infections. 
  • And now we have pulled Leah out of daycare for at least 2 weeks.  We just can't keep sending her back into the lion's den and dealing with her constantly being sick.  Not right now.  We have to get her well, and we all have to get well too. 
  • AA has to get isolated.  There are too many distractions pulling at her right now. 
  • So Nana has come to stay with us, at least for a couple of weeks.  She'll be watching Leah, and she's a huge help around the house too.  At this rate, AA is sure to pass the bar.  Thank you Nana!! 
  • Unfortunately, this means that Papa will be eating a lot of Long John Silver's in July. 
  • Family and friends, we promise things will get back to a state of normalcy at some point in August.  We will make the rounds and spend much more time with everyone.  We just have to survive right now. 

So if you were wondering why the blog hasn't been updated in a week, now you know.  On the flipside, the Peanut has gotten to meet a lot of our loyal blog readers in person, so there's the trade-off. 

In LA, we developed "Exam Mode."  That's when AA focuses on studying and I do virtually everything else that needs to be done.  That means Leah ends up running "Aarons" with me all over town. 

We thought AA's bar prep would force us into 2 months of "Exam Mode."  Instead, we are in "Survival Mode."  We have boxes everywhere, and we have just enough unpacked and set up so that we can survive until AA finishes the bar.  At that point, we can begin to get our lives back in order.

It's really hard to concentrate on work with all of this going on.  But I'm convinced we have the best baby in the world. Given all of this, she is generally just as happy as can be. Whether she's coughing, panting, sweating, or otherwise hurting, she tries so hard to smile through it all.

The rule in our house is that when you're sick, there are no rules.  Whatever makes you feel better, that's what goes.  You can see what makes Leah feel better....and I think it makes AA feel better too!  She's been sad that Leah won't sleep on her anymore.  But Leah has had no trouble curling up on Mommy recently.



Catching a cat nap in between "Aarons."  When she wakes up, she looks around quickly to
figure out where I've taken her this time, and if daycare, new faces, or shots are involved.

We didn't have to worry about her rolling off of our bed...she didn't have the energy.



"Make the pain go away, Mommy."

Pink eye is no match for the baby goldfish I'm about to devour. 
Put down the camera, and hand them over.