Showing posts with label BA's corner. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BA's corner. Show all posts

Thursday, September 13, 2012

BA's Corner: Where's Daddy?

AA, Nana, and I were sitting at the table tonight while I fed Leah her dinner.  Halfway through....

BA: "Leah, where's Mommy?"
Leah looks at AA and points to her.

BA: "Good job.  Now, where's Nana?"
Leah looks at Nana and smiles.

AA: "Good job."
Nana: "Where's Daddy?"

Leah shakes her head "no."



Wednesday, August 1, 2012

BA's Corner: Daycare, Changes, and Family

Leah is getting ready to transition to the next daycare class.  I hope the "Tiny Tots" are ready for a big Peanut.  While she's still an "Infant 1," I thought I'd share some daycare pics we got last month (most are from "beach day").  If nothing else, this proves that she doesn't cry all day long, just when we drop her off and pick her up.  Ugh.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Daycare has been a bit of a struggle - one we didn't expect.  New rules, new teachers, and new routines take some getting used to, and we're still adjusting.  For some reason, it seems like Leah has never been fully comfortable in her new daycare, and neither have we.  It's a nice facility and they do many great things with the kids.  But for some reason, we just haven't clicked.  There seem to be a lot of rules and things constantly change, so maybe that's part of it.  They are trying to push the kids from 2 naps/day to 1, and it's not going very well.  Aside from that:

  • Leah has started to eat everything on the menu since she's turned 1 (which is great, and fun too)
  • We continue to try the straw cup with her (unsuccessfully...although she did it once a few weeks ago)
  • We are still transitioning from formula to milk (she drank full milk for a few days, but I don't think her stomach was ready for it, which resulted in some extra loads of laundry.  So we are still mixing it with formula and gradually working up to full milk again). 
  • Plus she now has tennis shoes, since the "T-Tots" require them. 
 
Suffice it to say, there are many changes going on over here.  But Leah is sleeping very well at night and we are managing through the changes at a pace she can handle.  Plus, it is so wonderful to have AA back.  We feel like a family again - and a family that has control over our lives!  Monday afternoon, when we returned from our mini-vacation (thank you again Nana and Papa!), we took Leah on a wagon ride up to the pool after her nap.  We enjoyed swimming and relaxing as a family again.  I know it doesn't sound like much, but it is huge.  Leah had a ball splashing and kicking with both of us there, and she especially enjoyed when I would toss her up in the air.  Water splashed all in her face, and she just grinned and giggled.  
 
In our return to normalcy, we have vowed to:
  1. Take some time as a family every weekend...no pictures, no blogging, just enjoying the moment
  2. Salvage as much of the rest of the summer as possible, so that we don't look back at 2012 as "that awful, wasted summer when the bar controlled our lives."
 
Bar be gone.  We're a family again.

Friday, July 27, 2012

BA's Corner: Graduation Celebration

The night before AA's graduation, we planned a celebratory dinner at Katsuya.  Unfortunately, there have been so many other "current events" recently that this post is now long-overdue.  But since AA is still recovering from the bar exam, I thought I'd share this post because we had a great time that night, and I don't want the memories to be passed by. 

Katsuya is a special place to us.  In a lot of ways to me, it represents LA.  There's nothing bad on the menu, and everytime we went, we'd end up trying several new things on the menu (and loving them).  You pay for it, but it's a wonderful place for a special occasion.  And this was certainly a special occasion.

It was also a rare event - Leah was coming out to dinner with us.  In addition to being in a hotel room at this point, her schedule was about to be thrown off for the evening.  I think we were the only people in LA to eat dinner at 5 p.m. on a Friday night, but it was necessary. 



Since we ate so early, we scored the Tom Hanks booth again!





"Wait, is that my grape juice?"

Leah did great at the restaurant...staring dreamily at our Bradley-Cooper-look-alike waiter and flirting for a little attention (as if she wasn't getting enough already).  She got some exercise crawling back and forth on the benches.





The Peanut had reached her limit, and cried almost the whole way home in typical 405 traffic for 7 p.m. on a Friday (sorry Grandma and Aunt Haley who were stuck in the back seat with her).  It was frustrating because we knew that if we could just move, she'd fall asleep.  But we sat and sat.  It was a long ride home. 

After we got Leah to bed, it was time for a celebration.  We surprised AA with a TCBY cake and champagne for starters.  AA's parents also sang a song to her that they had prepared for the occasion. 


One of my gifts to AA was a dispenser of personalized M&M's.  I was very proud of how neat the images turned out...there's a picture of AA holding Leah while she studies - I thought that was appropriate for a graduation gift.  Do you see anything odd about this picture?



Yes, the Pepperdine mascot is the "Wave"

Well, there's something you need to understand here.  As a die-hard Florida State Seminole, I make it my personal mission to not allow the colors "orange" and "blue" to be used together.  We just can't have that other Florida school represented in any way.  Heck, when possible, I just remove orange completely to make sure it doesn't happen. 

Problem: Pepperdine's colors are orange and blue.  C'mon people....has the LA smog corrupted your brains?  Who decided the most beautiful campus on Earth should be frosted with orange and blue?  Yuck.  I can't even comfortably write those two colors in the same sentence.  But as I told AA, this occasion was all about her and her achievements - not my never-ending love of fried gator tail.  So for this one day, for this one occasion, it was not about me...it was about AA.  So we rolled out the orange and blue.  Look now...you'll never see this again from us (unless Leah goes to Pepperdine). 





We ended up leaving quite a bit of cake for the housekeeper, but had a great time celebrating while Leah slept peacefully in the other room

During the visit, Leah also decided to surprise AA's family with another "first" - waving.

Monday, July 9, 2012

BA's Corner: World's Best Baby

I'm now fully convinced that I have the world's best baby.

We had an ENT appointment scheduled for a couple of weeks from now, just in case Leah's ear infections didn't improve.  And the plan was to get an “emergency” ENT appointment if necessary last week.  Leah had been on her most recent medication for about 3.5 days.  Like the other medications, she seemed to be doing fine for a couple of days.  But on Thursday, she didn't nap well, began to tug at her ears, and we had to console her several times between 7:30 p.m. and midnight.  She tugged at her ears some more Friday morning.  So we thought something might be going on. 

It's always a judgment call as to whether we should make a doctor's appointment or not.  I'd say 80-90% of the time we've gone into the doctor, he or she confirmed that there was good reason for us to come in.  This day was no exception.

So after a month of a double ear infection, and after a failed 5th medication, we called in Friday morning to get an "emergency" ENT appointment for evaluation and next steps, which they scheduled for this coming Tuesday.  But we didn't think that was a very "emergent" appointment, and we thought we should get Leah checked out before the weekend.  So we got the first available sick appointment with Leah's pediatrician Friday morning - 10:10 a.m.  Nana and I hopped in the car for the short trip to the doctor’s office.

We brought the stroller so Leah could nap as long as possible at the office.  They tend to make you wait for a while, so we’ve learned to be prepared.  Leah fell asleep in the car, and I was able to transfer her to the stroller without her waking up too much.  So she got a 30-minute nap or so in her stroller at the doctor’s office (while I convinced the nurses not to touch her until the doctor came in).  


The doctor looked in her ears, determined they were “not much better,” and said our next step was for him to call in a favor to see if she could get tubes that afternoon.  He made several calls to review his treatments and Leah’s (lack of) progress, and discussed next steps.  Most doctors were in surgery or on vacation, but he managed to get a hold of one going through airport security at ATL.  He also got a second opinion in the office.  Everyone agreed immediate tubes was the right answer, and he got us scheduled for some time that afternoon.

At this point, Leah knows what the doctor’s office is, and she doesn’t care for it.  She whips her little head around to see each person who walks through the door and notice what they have in their hands.  So we had burned through all the toys in her diaper bag trying to keep her calm.  And while all these conversations were taking place, I was trying to convince Leah to drink her bottle, having already distracted her with goldfish and rice krispies. 

The doctor peeked in for a quick update and instructed us to stop feeding.  Oops.  If there was a possibility she’d get tubes that day, she’d have to stop drinking liquids for 6 hours, and stop eating solids for 8 hours.  Sorry Leah.  This is how she handled it....





The arrangements were made, and we headed straight to the Emergency Room.  Yikes.  Leah’s Granda (AA’s dad) was passing through town to have lunch, so we told him to have lunch with us in the ER!  AA met us there with a couple of bottles so we could give Leah some apple juice until about 1 p.m. 

Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta was wonderful.  From the minute we stepped in, we were impressed.  There was no wait, so we burned right through triage to our first room, where we traded off so that Granda could spend some time with the Peanut, who was in a smiley, playful mood as usual.



Nurses and doctors came in and out of that room, and Leah watched every one of them.  She looked at every tool and instrument that came close to her, and smiled at everyone.  She was great.  We determined that the surgery would occur no earlier than 6:45 p.m., since I had given her goldfish.  We were quite lucky actually…the Pediatric ENT performing the surgery was only scheduled until 7 p.m.  Had our original appointment been any later, we’d have been out of luck for the whole weekend.  So after some lunch and visiting, we shipped AA back home to study until at least 6 p.m.  We were moved to our second room, at which point I walked Leah up and down the halls for probably an hour trying to get her to nap in her stroller.  I got some strange looks, of course, but I’m used to it. 

Leah napped for probably 20 minutes, and I began to brace for the worst.  I knew we’d have the crankiest baby pretty soon….ear infections, strange environment, essentially one bottle all day long, and maybe a combined 60 minutes of naps all day.  She was going to be a handful until this surgery.  And I figured she’d be really cranky after the surgery too.  So Nana and I settled in for a long day.

We were moved to our third (and final) room, which had a pull-out couch and a crib bed in it.  Man-o-man did Leah have a ball in that crib bed.  We put the rails up, dropped her in, and she ran laps for hours!  She would crawl from one end to the other, stand up, point at anything, talk adamantly about it, hop down, and do it all over again.  She was so funny.  We kept steadily rotating through the limited number of toys we had, and improvised with a few others.  We built a fort with sheets, and I made balloons out of some medical gloves - she had a ball with those. 





We were told the surgery was scheduled for 8 p.m., so we grabbed a bite to eat and told AA to keep studying.  Soon after that, they called me and said “we’re ready for you.”  I knew AA wanted to be there to see Leah before the surgery, so I stalled them as much as possible.  They came in with an infant gown and told me to put Leah in it.  I lolly-gagged through that, asking the nurse some questions and playing with Leah a little bit.  Then I slowly sauntered down the hall with the nurse, making conversation and taking pictures with Leah. 

The big people in the funny costumes are using big words. 
Should I be concerned?

Nana stayed in the room to tell AA where to go when she arrived.  The doctors, PA’s, and nurses came in, and I asked each of them some questions.  The Pediatric ENT came in to review the procedure and I asked him some questions (after I thanked him profusely for squeezing us in at the end of his shift).  Just before the OR nurse came to pick up Leah, AA arrived.  So I handed Leah to her and we snapped a few pics.  Leah was curious, of course, but still smiling.  I couldn’t believe how wonderfully she had handled all of this on no sleep and an empty stomach.  She was amazing.



At 6:45 p.m., the OR nurse put Leah in a warm blanket and carried her off to surgery.  Leah didn’t cry…she just put her arm on the nurse’s shoulder and looked around. 
Do you all think you can bribe me with a measely warm blanket?

We walked back to our room.  The doctor came in about 10-15 minutes later and talked us through the follow-up procedures.  They brought Leah in a few minutes later, and she was cranky and fussy as expected.  She drank A LOT and we finally got her calmed down after about an hour.  She was ready to go, but they said it’d be another 2 hours before the paperwork was ready for her to be discharged.  Ugh!  So we all grabbed some dinner (Leah included) and then we sent AA back to study some more.  It was hard to believe that an hour and a half after her procedure, this was our girl…..


Which way to the elevator, Peanut?






Every time the nurse came in, Leah crawled to that side of the crib, stood up, and stared at her while she spoke, listening intently.  Her final discharge instructions included (1) no blowing your nose and (2) no heavy lifting.  Leah didn't think either of those would be a problem.  By 9:45 p.m., we were all wrapped up.  The last thing I asked the nurse was “Do you mind if we keep the gown?”  She let me, so we’ll see if we get a bill.  It was adorable….what a souvenir.  

Get me outta here!!

I couldn’t believe after a day like that, no food, no sleep, all that strange activity, and it being way past her 7:30 p.m. bedtime…this was how my child was behaving.  I was so proud of her.

She napped on the way home.  We gave her another bottle at midnight, along with some Tylenol.  She slept well.  Lets hope the worst of the ear infections is behind us!

Thursday, July 5, 2012

BA's Corner: The Big Day

Sandwiched between final exams, a cross-country move, and bar exam prep was one major day that flew by way too quickly: graduation day.  I saw many of AA's friends who I hadn't seen in months, which was always a nice treat.  And we met many of their families, who we'd heard a lot about.  Leah got passed around and seemed to make everyone smile.  It was a wonderful time, and we enjoyed celebrating AA's hard-earned achievement.

AA's family flew in from Florida and D.C. to attend.  They spent a few days in the hotel with us and helped us say farewell to California.

It's unfortunate that AA spent 3 years on something this big, and you only spend a couple of days celebrating it.  But there has never been a more beautiful setting for a graduation - bright, sunny Malibu did not disappoint! 

"Guys, I think I can manage the cap, but the gown and the stairs are going to be a challenge."

AA with her family

"Weee, this is fun!  I still don't know why I have these things on my feet though."



AA and her Law School friends, Jill, Kristen, and Emily - Class of 2012

"All of this pomp and circumstance makes me hungry....this looks tasty."

"Auntie Kristen, Aren't you hungry too?"

"What do you mean you didn't bring any goldfish!"

One of my favorite pics from the day...our friend Kenley (a father himself)
attempting to control a strong and squirmy Peanut.




AA wanted her graduation lunch to be at Versailles, a local cuban restaurant chain.  It was a tough choice with so many good restaurants around, but it's hard to go wrong with Versailles.  We all enjoyed our last lunch in LA.